Female Sex Drive

There is a lot of confusion about the female sex drive, and not just among men. Even many women have been fooled and tricked about the female sex drive, its “terms and conditions” and its intensity.


Our culture is obsessed with sex–indeed, a writer once defined sex as something that “in the United States is an obsession; for the rest of the world, simply a fact of life.” This means for us that we are exposed to two polar opposite extremes. We are exposed to the prudes and we are exposed to the “porn star mentalities”.

The prudes would have us all believe that women don’t like sex nearly as much as men do and that the female sex drive is almost entirely about needs for emotional intimacy and procreation (the first one of those things being something that poor males cannot begin to understand). As a consequence of this, the female sex drive gets ignored by the main stream media. Or, when it’s not ignored, it gets deliberately watered down and made hypersensitive or embarrassing, as anyone who has ever seen a couple episodes of Rachel Ray understands.

At the opposite end of this distorted spectrum we find the porn star mentalities. These are people, male and female alike, who see female sexuality as nothing more than a commodity and a marketing tool. It’s there to be utterly exploited, exaggerated and manipulated to the limits of cultural acceptance to manipulate men and women alike to buy things, or to give men incentives to do things.

It is no wonder that with all this misinformation floating around like pollen in Spring, confusion about female sexuality abounds–and when there’s confusion there’s a lack of enjoyment.


Women love sex as much as men do, and they have just as much physical sexual need as males. (By the way, males have as much emotional intimacy need as females, too.) But powerful cultural forces, including a lot of traditional Christian teaching and Feminism, have sought to suppress or repress this fact, although neither one of those things always or exclusively has that effect.

For everyone, but especially for females, environmental factors can strongly influence sex drive either for good or bad. When females are affected by an environment of confusion, misinformation, and suppression, their libidos can suffer, negatively affecting them and their relationships with men or their husbands.

But there is help for a diminished female sex drive. Many researchers have concluded that Provestra and Vigorelle are the best natural female libido enhancers and can make all the difference between female sexual fulfillment and misery due to lack of sexual enjoyment.

True Stories of Cheating Wives

We always hear about men straying and having affairs. But we also know women can be capable of such things.

There are varied reasons why wives cheat on their husbands. Most often, unfaithfulness of wives stem from loneliness and boredom. Sometimes a liaison with another man is committed out of revenge for their cheating husbands. Here are some true stories:

Cheating Wife 1

A man notices his wife of twenty three years changes from being computer illiterate to an Internet addict in a matter of six months. His trust for her made him ignore the long hours she spent online with her “new friends” and even sending them gifts. Later on, her time for their children suffered too. It turned out she became obsessed with other men, even male prostitutes who solicit online.

His wife had become a totally different woman, influenced by the dark and perverted world she had embraced. She left her husband and family but not before doing as much damage as she can, making hideous accusations and horrid remarks to other family members.

Cheating Wife 2

Another man found out about his wife’s three month long affair. She had slept with her lover several times over this period. Only after being confronted and being face-to-face with evidence did she confess. The husband was naturally devastated but forgave her so they can have a second chance and begin to rebuild their broken relationship. The wife was truly repentant and did her best to make up to her husband.

However, the pain remained inside. The husband did not know how to cope. He wondered if he should know more about the affair in order to get over it. The past just seemed to catch up and hurt him time and again. He forgave but could not forget.

Cheating Wife 3

Who could understand the madness that drove a man to kill his three year old daughter? A subsequent trial revealed the man had been depressed for months after finding out his wife was having an affair. He drugged his daughter with anti-depressant medication he had been taking and killed her with chloroform two days before her fourth birthday. He said he dealt with the deceit and wanted his wife to deal with the consequences for the rest of her life.

Cheating Wife 4

A couple got married after a year of meeting and falling in love while attending university. They later moved to Italy and back to Britain. A year after that, the wife filed for divorce. Minutes after that, he used a can of gasoline to set their home on fire.

But before the divorce papers, there were already marital troubles. Bad enough for the man to threaten his wife of burning their Italian flat so they can be together forever. Among his accusations were his suspicion of his wife having an affair.

Cheating Wife 5

One woman admitted to cheating on her husband every time she got angry with him. She had one-night stands with different men which left her unfulfilled. She wanted to get back on her husband through her infidelity but ended up destroying herself.

Some cheating wives blame their husbands for driving them to enter into affairs. But for marriage to really work, it takes commitment and effort from both husband and wife. Cheating on your spouse is a selfish act.

The Porn High And How To Use This For Amazing Sex With Your Lover

Porn can lead to a huge turn on for most men and women. In fact, the sexual high is much stronger than achieved in normal sex. Some men and women find this high so pleasurable that can start to watch porn over and over again. This can impact on a relationship, the quality of sex with their lover can go downhill.

Most sensitive woman can spot a man who watches a lot of porn everyday from his energy. Many men ejaculate many times a day from their porn habit. Such men can have a lack of vitality and masculine power. I feel this is from ejaculation too much. This energy is a real turn off for a woman.

I am not against watching porn, as you can use porn to explore amazing high erotic states and men can even learn about premature ejaculation and dry orgasms.

Erotic Pathways

The main disadvantage of watching a lot of porn is that it narrows your erotic pathways in your body. You train your brain to get to orgasms only with one method of intense fantasy and masturbation friction. Most men tighten up in their body watching porn. This restricts their ability to feel pleasure in the body.

Over time, one becomes less sensitive to erotic touch and less sensitive to feeling your partner’s energy. Relaxation in sex is needed to activate the mirror neurons that allow you to feel what your lover is experiencing.

The following are some tips to use porn with the aim to get into your body rather than leaving our body for a visual fantasy.

Porn Body Movement

The main tip to expand the pleasure in porn is to use some body movement. Try watching porn standing and move our hips or thrust them in and out.

You will find that this allows the energy to move out of your genitals into your body for a more powerful, full body experience.

Some can make porn a dance experience. Just adding some hip movement can add another element.

Becoming in your body is important for good sex. Porn can teach us to be out of the body and into visual fantasy. It is important to explore adding your body into your porn watching.

Porn and Breath

Now focus on adding some conscious breathing to your practice. One can coordinate your breath with the movement on the screen or your own movement.

Porn and Sounds

Now the most challenging thing to add for most men is to make sounds during the session. Express what you are feeling. Even laugh.

This helps move the erotic energy out of your genitals to a more whole body experience. If you really get into load sounds you will feel the orgasm in your whole body.

Video Production Business Tips – What to Charge For Your Video Services


I read somewhere a long time ago that what you are selling is only worth what someone else is willing to pay. Some people might only want to pay $50/hr for your video production services, while others will be perfectly happy paying $250/hr for the same service. Of course, the customer has to perceive that they are getting good value for their dollar.

When I was in the wedding video production business, I chose to target affluent families. They were willing to pay upwards of $3000 to $5000 per video whereas the middle- income families were typically not willing to pay any more than $1500 for the same services. There was literally zero difference between the amount of hours or the quality of our product. (I of course felt our videos were always worth the $5000. I just had to find the right customer that saw the value the same way I did.)

In the corporate video business, large companies will typically pay several thousand or tens of thousands more for the same services as smaller businesses. Small businesses will micro-manage every penny and not want to pay more for anything, whereas larger businesses will typically increase the scope of a project while you are working on the project, resulting in a more profitable project and overall relationship.

I think ultimately, it boils down to your level of confidence with your abilities and the value you can create for a client. Those of you who want to thrive in the future, instead of just surviving, try raising your rates across the board by 10%, 20% or even as much as 35%. Are you worth it? I think so. In most cases, clients won’t even notice the difference.

The one’s who do will understand if you position the rate increase by saying “In order for me to better serve you, I need to increase our rates. New equipment, technologies, labor, etc. are making it necessary to raise rates.”

Whatever or however you position it, just make sure it makes legitimate business sense as to why you are raising your rates. You might lose a few clients, but the one’s you keep plus the new business you’ll get under your new rate structure will make you far more money with less effort overall. Go ahead. Raise your rates on all upcoming projects. Once you have success doing so, you’ll never look back.

Another way to start off on the right track is to adjust your payment terms. A few years back, I had trouble getting clients to pay on large projects in a reasonable amount of time. The result was that I was broke with around $50k in receivables that never seemed to come in when I needed it. The remedy: Our contracts now call for a 50% deposit at the beginning of every project with the balance due upon completion and delivery.

This has drastically improved my monthly cash flow but a few clients have adapted to my terms with no problems. The key is to realize that your clients expect YOU to tell them how to purchase your services. Not the other way around. We can’t walk into Wal-Mart and tell them that we’ll pay them net 45 but that we need the coffee maker today can we?? Why should we be responsible for financing 100% of a client’s project until it is complete or until they want to pay?

Some larger businesses have accounts payable policies that you can’t get around no matter what, but my experience has been that even the largest of accounts can pass your invoice through quickly if necessary. The trick is to make sure that they understand that “this is your policy on projects greater than $3000 or whatever amount you want to set.” When you start projects with half the money in your pocket, you feel good about working on the account, the client gets better service and they are motivated to finish quickly because they have already invested.

If they drag their feet, who cares? You already have a good portion of the money in your pocket. Just be sure to manage it properly in case your client drags their feet for months or even over a year. Also, make sure you hang on to money that you haven’t used in project hours if/when your contract states they can pull the plug at any time as long as they give you ample notice. Usually, your contract will state that they must pay you for work completed so it’s always in your best interest to do as much on their project as you can early.

We have a few clients that get excited, pay us a bunch of money up front, then cool off for 6 months or more. It’s almost comical but I have my video production manager contact them once a week reminding them that we need to get started on their video project. We charge the time it takes to do this to their account. They’ll get around to us sooner or later but meanwhile, they understand that we have to charge them for any activity we have to take to keep their project moving.

What Is Free Web Video Conferencing?

Technology has changed the way we live in the world. It has made the place more interconnected and interdependent. Distances or physical barriers are not a deterrent factor in doing business or for any other personal reasons. Wish to talk to your business partner located in another continent? Free web video conferencing has solutions to all your problems.

The technology enables people to be in constant touch with people located across other nations. Besides, it is affordable and simple to use. In fact, it is not only being used for business purposes but also used by people to keep in touch with their dear ones. The importance of the technology can be gauged from the fact that no good organization is without a video conferencing room.

Features of the technology

Text messaging, PowerPoint slide presentations, file sharing, surveys and polls are some of the features provided by the technology. It has made businesses advanced and given them a professional touch. Now people do not have to travel to other nations to conduct meetings. The technology thus saves time and money.

Free web video conferencing Companies

There are various companies that offer trials for free, and later allow one to have membership at discounted prices. These services include voicemail and high-speed conferencing. Some of the features provided by the web video conferencing services are Marratech, GoToMeeting and Office Live Meeting. Some of the necessary equipment to be used is a web camera, a high speed Internet connection and a computer system. It is advisable that the Internet service provider be of good quality.

To conduct a business or stay in touch with your loved ones, it is necessary that you make use of web video conferencing.

How to Seduce an Older Man – Here is the Skill Set You Need in Order to Lure an Older Man

Older men function very differently from younger men. While the younger man is on an all time libido high, the older man needs to be seduced and aroused. If you are looking at seducing an older man you will have to consider more than just deciding on the right time and place. Here are the things that you need to do if you want to seduce an older man.

Create some tension

Older men need some more excitement in their lives. So if an older man finds you attractive, you need to first egg him on. So while you work hard to get him attracted to you keep holding back so that the need in him is created.

Look great

This is a no brainer. The older man has been there and done it all so you’ll have to work on the way you look. You should be able to attract him to you physically. So, choose the right outfit that is enticing enough.

Use your intellect

Just depending on your good looks isn’t good enough if you want to seduce an older man. You have to use your intellect to gauge what he wants and deliver that accordingly. Also having a stimulating conversation is a great way to rev up his engine.

Find things that stimulate him

You will also have to find out about things that stimulate him sexually. Find out if he has any fetish or desires that he has been nursing secretly and play them out. You can also work on role playing so that he can pretend to be someone else. Giving him these options, although in an indirect manner is definitely going to help you seduce him.

Be confident

You will have to work on your confidence levels if you want to seduce and older man. Do not be nervous and jittery. He wants to be with a woman who knows what she’s doing and not with one who’s trying to learn the ropes. So act confident even if you don’t feel so.

Don’t act clingy

Your self assurance will be one of the strongest things that you possess. Do not act clingy as that is not a seductive trait. Always come across as a strong and independent woman who is living life according to her own terms and he will find you a temptress.

Use your body

Use your body to stimulate him further. The visual presentation matters a lot. So, dress provocatively enough to tickle his senses but keep enough hidden to intrigue him. Playing the cat and mouse game will help you seduce him well.

3 Clitoral Stimulation Techniques Women Love

Ready to make your lover quiver in pleasure with 3 of the hottest clitoral stimulation techniques?

Once you begin using these little secrets…

…You’ll begin having the passionate sex few couples enjoy and she will begin desiring the orgasms you provide every single time you make love.

You’re intelligent enough to know that women when properly pleasured increase their libido and crave fmore sex.

Are your ready to become her best lover ever? Then read on.

  1. The best clitoral stimulation techniques begin with your hands. Simply by applying a little lubricant on your fingers and massaging the area around her clitoris is enough for most women to slip off into ecstasy. You will want to use a circular motion with your hands using a slow tempo when you begin. As she becomes more aroused, speed up the tempo and increase the pressure.
  2. Cunnilingus is another method to stimulate her magic button. But you should begin licking her in a rhythmic circular motion. As she begins peaking her arousal, start to directly make contact with it by using a sweeping left to right motion of your tongue.

  3. Her favorite sex toy is her favorite for a reason. Don’t be too intimidated to bring it into play. Some men feel this is her personal toy so they refrain from inviting it to bed. If it maximizes her pleasure then by all means, use it to help her orgasm.

When you want to have the hottest sexual experience possible that you both will enjoy, try these methods out and see how she responds.

The more adept you become using them, the easier it will be for her to orgasm.

The Penis Size Comparison – Big Or Small?

The minds of countless males everywhere have always wondered the question about penis size. Even if the issue itself has been resolved numerous amount of times it seems that there will never be an answer that will satisfy everyone. We have all been told about the myths and misconceptions of penis size. We are aware that the matter of penis size is merely subjective.

Yet the questions still ring in our thoughts. Does size matter? What do women really want? Is bigger better? The questions are endless! As long as there are men of different ethnicity, sizes, and shapes the questions will always come up in one way or form. However rather than just trying to “resolve” the issue, because it seems that it won’t happen any time soon, better to just compare the advantages and disadvantages, and let them figure things out from there. For most guys penis size is either “big” or “small” and that’s it, nothing in between. This penis size comparison will not focus on physical appearance, but to show that both sides have its own share of ups and downs.

Having a “Big” Penis

The Good:

  • Many men who are endowed tend to have more confidence, and in turn have no problem socializing and dating the opposite sex.
  • There is a feeling of power and masculinity. You definitely carry yourself differently.
  • There are women who do believe that size matters, and for that they are very lucky.

The Bad:

  • Confidence is one thing, but being overly confident and cocky (No pun intended) is a turn off for most women. Come on guys. You may have a large penis, but the world doesn’t revolve around it.
  • Sex can be painful for your partner. It has been confirmed several times. Some women in fact do prefer a smaller sized penis.
  • The common misconception that having a bigger penis means better sex is false. A big tool doesn’t mean better sex. Many women have experienced stronger orgasms with men who were generally smaller particularly in the average range. When it came down to it, overall sexual performance was preferred over size.

Having a” Small” Penis

The Good:

  • Some women prefer a modest size penis over a big one, and for that they are lucky.
  • Another misconception is that “smaller” men are not good in bed. Not true. Men who believe they are inadequate, tend to compensate with lots of foreplay. In one instance someone told me she experienced extreme pleasure simply because he was good with his tongue and hands. It makes sense seeing that a majority of female orgasms happen through clitoral stimulation rather than vaginal penetration.
  • In many cases men who think they’re small are actually average sized.

The Bad:

  • People who are not happy with their size tend to be insecure, and otherwise have a harder time dating women. Stop thinking about it. Chances are it’s all in your head. Lack of confidence is a huge turn off with many women.
  • As sad as it sounds, some women simply are not sexually satisfied with small penises, but don’t let it discourage you. Just move on to the next.

So what does this mean? It just merely shows that one is not necessarily better than the other. Having either a big or small penis both have their fair share of good and bad things. Some guys may want to enlarge their penis, and that’s fine. In other cases they may be too big, and women simply don’t want to deal with that. The matter of penis size is subjective. Every girl in the world cannot possibly think the same because they are all different. In the end it comes down to accepting what you have, or taking the necessary steps to change that.

What In Vitro Fertilization Is And How It Is Done

Infertility is a problem that faces more than six million Americans. The prevalence of this problem has lead to an increase in fertility clinics around the country using a fertility treatment known as In vitro fertilization.

In vitro fertilization (IVF) is the commonly used assisted reproductive technology (ART). During IVF, the sperm fertilizes the egg outside the body. The egg is then implanted by the doctor into the woman’s uterus with the hope that this will lead to a successful pregnancy.

The first baby born via IVF was in 1978 in England. Later that year, another baby was born via IVF in India. In 1981, the first American baby was born using IVF. According to the CDC, more than 48,000 babies were born in 2003 through ART-99 percent of which were through IVF.

A common misconception is that IVF is the first process a couple goes through when they are having trouble conceiving. On the women’s side, usually fertility drugs, antibiotics and hormone treatments are prescribed to increase the chances of pregnancy. For the men, there is medication used to increase sperm count. Men also, like the women, may take antibiotics or prescription hormones. And a change in lifestyle is commonly recommended to men, like switching to boxers from briefs, avoiding hot showers, and just generally keeping the genitals from overheating.

Barring the success of all the previously mentioned methods, artificial insemination may be the next possibility. Artificial insemination is where the male’s sperm is donated and manually placed in the woman’s uterus or fallopian tubes. Another similar process to artificial insemination called intrauterine insemination, where the semen is inserted into the woman’s uterus using a catheter, is also a method used to help in conception.

It’s usually not until all these methods fail that an ART treatment is attempted, and that treatment is almost always IVF. When the case involves a low sperm count or damaged fallopian tubes, IVF is a common practice. In addition, women who suffer from a common gynecological condition called “endometriosis” often try IVF in an attempt to conceive.

The process of IVF involves 4 basic steps:

1. Stimulation

2. Retrieval

3. Fertilization

4. Transfer

Most women start their menstrual cycle with a crop of eggs, and halfway through the cycle, they are left with one mature egg. Stimulation causes the ovaries to produce many mature eggs using fertility medications.

Once the eggs mature the patient is ready for the egg retrieval process. During retrieval, the patient is mildly sedated, and the doctor uses an aspiration needle and ultrasound guidance to retrieve the mature eggs. This process is done vaginally, leaving no scars.

The eggs are removed from the needle and given to an embryologist who places the eggs into a small dish (not a test tube). After retrieval the eggs are ready for fertilization.

Fertilization can be done where the sperm are placed in the dish with the eggs and the fastest, most ambitious sperm will fertilize the egg. In cases where the sperm lacks motility, fertilization is induced through intracytoplasmic sperm injection, where the sperm is directly injected into the egg.

After fertilization, the embryos are put in gas incubators to simulate the environment of the uterus. After three to five days the embryos are transferred to the woman’s uterus using a catheter through the cervix.

Depending on the quality of the embryos, the chances of the procedure resulting in a successful pregnancy are anywhere from 20-70%.

I hope this article helped answer some question you may have had about in vitro fertilization. If you are having trouble conceiving, talk to a doctor or a fertilization specialist.

List of 21 Good Dares for Playing Truth or Dare

On sleepovers, college parties and birthdays, Truth or Dare still is the most popular game ever. The only problem is: people run out of ideas for good dares pretty fast. Check out this list of dares for the next time you play Truth or Dare!

1. Get your wrists and legs tied together for 5 minutes

This dare is especially evil if other dares have to be completed with tied hands afterwards. You can even tie different players together for added fun.

2. Go out and feed at least one cat in the neighborhood

3. Pin a coin against the wall with your nose for 3 min

This dare is much harder than it sounds. Especially if your friends make you laugh in the meantime.

4. Act as if you are crying and describe your worst date

Get creative and make some good drama. Let others have fun with your little scene!

5. Act like a dog and get out in the courtyard for 5 min

Tail wagging, leg lifting, barking – your dog names it, you do it!

6. Ask the most beautiful person of the party for a kiss

This is a very sweet dare. Whomever you ask will get this not-so-subtle compliment. But it’s still cute. Go get that kiss!

7. Go outside the next time you have to go to the toilet

This one is easy for the guys to do.

8. Imitate an animal and have everyone guess what it is.

You’ll be surprised at how bad the other players are with hearing your elephant that sounds like a dying frog-giraffe…!

9. Stand in corner for 5 minutes while others are watching.

Especially effective if you have been handcuffed to someone/something, stripped or drenched. Or if you are ticklish and others can tease you while you are stuck without being able to fight back!

10. Lick ketchup from the back of a person of your choice

Easy, sexy or horrible dare. Depending on the back of the person you are licking!

11. Sing a really romantic song with a hard and dry voice

Have the girls do this dare. It’ll be fun for everyone!

12. Drink a mixture of 1/3 sugar, 1/3 salt and 1/3 coffee

You can mix up all sorts of drinks. Be sure that you have the right age for the drink you’re drinking.

13. Imitate a cartoon character and have everyone guess it

14. Pretend to be a clock and show the time with your legs

And show everyone how flexible you are (or not).

15. Put a pillow up your shirt and pretend to be in labor pains.

You’ll have some really sarcastic fun with this one! Be sure to check with the neighbors before you make too much noise. You can pretend the pillow is your baby after it’s born.

16. Think of your favorite swear word and yell it out loud

17. You have to ask out the next person coming in the room

Or you can go up to him or her and try to get a kiss in. Don’t get slapped!

18. Exchange one piece of clothing with your right neighbor

Have a girl and a guy with very different sizes do it for added fun.

19. Have a pointless conversation with a stranger for a min.

The key is to hold the conversation for a full minute. This will seem longer than you think. If you fail, start over.

20. Have someone pour a glass of cold water down your pants.

21. Have the group mix different sauces. You have to eat it.

That’s it: hope you can make good use of those dares for Truth or Dare. Don’t get too crazy with it. Truth or Dare parties are all about the fun, not so much about having someone feeling guilty or disgusted.